Hi, Verity here, ready to share a little secret—I'm messy. Not just a little messy either. So messy that many of my adorable family pictures sit tucked away because all I can see is the clutter in the background. Here's another confession: I've mastered the art of last-minute tidying, so most people don't realize the chaos that can unfold in my space. It's not just me; it's the whole family contributing to the delightful mess. Yet, as the mom and primary caregiver, the responsibility of keeping things in order falls heavily on my shoulders, and let's face it, it's no easy feat!
Hi, Verity here, ready to share a little secret—I'm messy. Not just a little messy either. So messy that many of my adorable family pictures sit tucked away because all I can see is the clutter in the background. Here's another confession: I've mastered the art of last-minute tidying, so most people don't realize the chaos that can unfold in my space. It's not just me; it's the whole family contributing to the delightful mess. Yet, as the mom and primary caregiver, the responsibility of keeping things in order falls heavily on my shoulders, and let's face it, it's no easy feat!
A few years back, I stumbled upon Marie Kondo's decluttering magic on Netflix. Intrigued, I bought her book and have read it multiple times, even attempting to declutter more than once. However, I never quite reached the finish line. I've tackled clothes on two occasions with great success, books once with moderate success, but papers? Nope. I skipped ahead to Komono, the miscellaneous chaos that has forever driven me nuts and then was burnt out.
Now, let's talk hand-me-downs. I thrive on them. My female in-laws love to shop, and when they pass on their clothes, I'm the first in line to explore the treasures. I don't keep everything, but the occasional gem does find a place in my wardrobe. So, yes, it's time to revisit my clothes yet again.
So I am letting the past be the past and taking what I have learned and embarking on this journey afresh, I'm revisiting Marie Kondo's wisdom, and this time, I'm honing in on what she recommends before diving into discarding. Chapter two begins with a powerful statement: "Before you start, visualize your destination." That's what this blog is all about, we use affirmations to visualize our destination of where we want to be in the future. So, I'm here, identifying my goal and uncovering what I truly want from this process. Let's play the 'why' game, a little exercise inspired by my three-year-old.
Why do I want to tidy up? I want guests to feel at home amidst order, my kids to know where their belongings belong, and I want more quality time with my family, less spent on cleaning. I yearn for the freedom to take my kids outside without chores looming over my head, and I want these chores to be more efficient, not stretching into hours or days. I want to navigate my home without fearing that a basket of laundry might send something crashing. I desire time for private moments with my husband without the nagging thought of an untidy house. I want to walk freely, unburdened by clutter.
I also, want mental space for personal growth. More music, less battle with belongings. When people ask who are you, I answer: I am a wife, a mom and a singer. Then I have to clarify but I pretty much just sing in church now. I love singing in church but the criteria for being able to sing in church is, well lets just say the qualifications are that they want you to bear your testimony with song more than stay in tune. I'd like to sing in places that require both. Singing with other strong singers that know what they're doing, well, there's nothing like it. Your hearts race together as you harmonize and crescendo, there's no better feeling in the world to me than singing at my best with others doing the same. That is a calling of my soul that I have yet to fully develop. But I intend to.
There's a multitude of other reasons, but perhaps the most significant are time with my family and time for my music. Growing up in a musical family, I'd spend hours singing and practicing. Music is my solace, my joy, and my dream. I want to reclaim that time, to sing and touch peoples hearts with song instead of being in a constant battle against clutter with no time for the things I love.
So, this is my fight. I'm starting from scratch, focusing on clothes, and sharing the journey with all of you. For those unfamiliar with the process, Marie Kondo looks at your space as a whole and you discard based on item category; first clothes, then books, papers, komono (the bulk of items in your home, kitchen items, bathroom, garage etc.) , and then sentimental items. Brace yourselves for some 'before and after' shots, and find me on Facebook and Instagram for video updates. I can't promise it'll be tomorrow or Monday (busy mom life, you know), but you'll definitely see it soon!
If you've read this far, chances are you're like me—living with too much clutter and seeking change. Comment below if you've heard of Marie Kondo or her method, share your experiences, and let's connect.
Next time, more on affirmations and clothing updates. Until then, signing off!
- Verity
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